Like so many parents, the impending opening (or not) of school looms over us. My 15-year-old is desperate to go. Every afternoon, picking her up from soccer practice, my friend and I stand in the parking lot, talking. As we share trivial and not-at-all trivial snippets in these few moments, I eye the sprawling brick high school, thinking, Really? How is any of this possible? Lumping teens together, here or in any other building? Does this make sense at all?
What my kid wants is clear — to hang with her friends, to rise up in a real challenge, to learn, to begin finding her forward to her own adult life. Basic stuff.
I’ve hit places of indecision in my life before, like when I uncoupled myself from a marriage. But now? My friend and I stand in collective indecision. Finished, our girls walk towards us in their cleats, sweatshirts slung over their shoulders, masks dangling from their hands. They’re looking at each other and at us, laughing, maybe making a joke about the two of us, or maybe simply happy in this sunny August afternoon, tired from practice and hungry for dinner.
My friend and I look at each other and remark on our girls’ happiness — thankfully. We lean against our cars, talking.
For this moment, there’s no school, no tomorrow, no next week, not even these past lonely months.
And because my mind works this way, I think of how a river turns when it meets an obstacle, never bullying forward, but shifting with the lay of the land. The lay of our land has changed.
The girls look at each other, giggling, and I’m suddenly sure they’ve been laughing at my friend and me. I’m utterly happy about that.
“Life is always rushing away from us.”
— Stephen Kiernan, Universe of Two
3 thoughts on “Ordinary Day”
Incredible times we are living through. I know my granddaughter, also 15, is eager to go back two days a week, but anxious as well because she has asthma. She is not as anxious as I am.
My sympathy for your family’s scenario. This really isn’t the most lighthearted time to parent or grandparent…..
No, it is a time of great concern. My granddaughter is handling it well. She keeps telling me people will be stupid and school will go remote again before the end of the month. She is probably right.